Triggers I hate you.

Some days i can go along just fine, everything is good and busy and i forget about my miscarriage and subsequent d&c. Other days, triggers just get me.

The past 2 days i’ve had those triggers. Starting with a negative pregnancy test, continuing with a brunch conversation about a friend who “is having her fourth kid by accident- forgot she wasn’t on birth control”, and summed up today after receiving a bill for “missed abortion”.  The pit in my stomach does not change.

Triggers i hate you.

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  1. I am so sorry 🙁 We all know what those triggers are like. Hang in there. Some of the triggers will lessen with time. (((HUGS)))

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