Beyond Grief: Understanding Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

When one first hears “post traumatic stress disorder” your mind might go right away to veterans  – those who were/are members of the military and have had to endure some experiences that one would classify as traumatic. It is usually not a diagnosis that one throws around likely and it can be a challenging one to manage and get through.

Women who experience miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal death are also at risk of developing acute stress disorder (these symptoms with onset before 1 month) or post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).  The cycle of trauma is at risk of overshadowing the grief process and due to the nature of miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal death — losing a loved one in an unexpected way & traumatically so — one needs to watch out for the signs of PTSD. It has been estimated that 10% of women who experience loss will develop acute stress disorder on top of their grief and 1% will develop post traumatic stress disorder.

Diagnostic Criteria for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (DSM-IV - 309.81):

A.  The person has been exposed to a traumatic event in which both of the following have been present:

1. The person has experienced, witnessed, or been confronted with an event or events that involve actual or threatened death or serious injury, or a threat to the physical integrity of oneself or others.
2. The person’s response involved intense fear, helplessness, or horror.

B. The traumatic event is persistently re-experienced in at least one of the following ways:

1. Recurrent and intrusive distressing recollections of the event, including images, thoughts, or perceptions.
2. Recurrent distressing dreams of the event.
3. Acting or feeling as if the traumatic event were recurring (includes a sense of reliving the experience, illusions, hallucinations, and dissociative flashback episodes, including those that occur upon awakening or when intoxicated).
4. Intense psychological distress at exposure to internal or external cues that symbolize or resemble an aspect of the traumatic event.
5. Physiologic reactivity upon exposure to internal or external cues that symbolize or resemble an aspect of the traumatic event.

C. Persistent avoidance of stimuli associated with the trauma and numbing of general responsiveness (not present before the trauma), as indicated by at least three of the following:

1. Efforts to avoid thoughts, feelings, or conversations associated with the trauma
2. Efforts to avoid activities, places, or people that arouse recollections of the trauma
3. Inability to recall an important aspect of the trauma
4. Markedly diminished interest or participation in significant activities
5. Feeling of detachment or estrangement from others
6. Restricted range of affect (e.g., unable to have loving feelings)
7. Sense of foreshortened future (e.g., does not expect to have a career, marriage, children, or a normal life span)

D. Persistent symptoms of increased arousal (not present before the trauma), indicated by at least two of the following:

1. Difficulty falling or staying asleep
2. Irritability or outbursts of anger
3. Difficulty concentrating
4. Hyper-vigilance
5. Exaggerated startle response

E.  Duration of the disturbance (symptoms in B, C, and D) is more than one month.

F.  The disturbance causes clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning.

If you are worried that what you or a loved one could be dealing with post traumatic stress disorder on top of grief please go speak with your doctor.

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About the author: Devan McGuinness

is the founder of the online resource Unspoken Grief , which is dedicated to breaking the silence of perinatal grief for those directly and indirectly affected by miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal death. Using her own experience of surviving 12 miscarriages, Devan has been actively supporting and encouraging others who are wading through the challenges associated with perinatal and neonatal loss.

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  • Good article, Devan. I’ve posted before about PTSD and wanted to say again, there is hope if you’re experiencing it. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy offers a way to move the traumatic memory from the emotional side of the brain to the non-emotional side through a kind of self-hynopsis therapy. It’s not easy, it takes work, because you have to experience the memories and go back through them, but it works. After a traumatic abduction and multiple sexual assaults, my 16 year old daughter did EMDR therapy to help her with PTSD and flashbacks, and while she hated the therapy because she had to face what had happened to her, she now has a way to cope and the symptoms of PTSD have retreated. Sounds and looks odd, but works.

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  • It scares me to death whenever it flashes on my mind, I basically experience depression but I never take them seriously, for I have this certain reason that everything was made with a purpose and the main purpose of having stress is to determine from yourself that you have the capability to fight it and stand from it without giving up. There’s no sense on losing your grip for everything can be properly resolve and comes with a reason.

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  • I had PTSD after HELLP syndrome with the birth of my daughter and did EMDR noted above and it worked. It was indeed hard to face that day over and over again in my mind but I did find some joyful memories amidst the painful ones and the PTSD subsided.
    I’m now facing the grief of losing triplets 3 months ago and the PTSD seems to be returning in response to this as well. I know EMDR might help and have suggested to so many others – but facing those memories again is easier said than done. Just wanted to support that therapy here for others looking for help. It sound crazy but it does work.

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  • Thank you so much for posting this. After 6 miscarriages, I know that this is more than depression, and different than grief. It’s hard to treat or get help for something that nobody really knows how to deal with. Not only am I reliving my losses in my head constantly, especially when pregnancy or babies are seen, but I’ve *actually* relived it over and over. I can’t seem to make my support system understand how traumatic this has really been for me, and they are treating me as if I was dealing with plain old grief or depression, when it’s more complicated than that. Thank you for helping to give a shape to what I am going through.

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