Unspoken Grief Contributors

To My Child

To my child, I think about you daily.  I wonder would you have curly hair, long eyelashes, and blue eyes.  Would you be happy and giggly?I wish you would have stayed.I miss you -- I miss everything that you should have been. -- Shell  Photo credit: adapted from  Horia Varlan |  Flickr --> keep reading

Laying Our Baby to Rest Was the Hardest Thing

On April 7th, my fiance and I found out that we had lost our baby. I was 23 weeks and 2 days along with my 3rd pregnancy and hadn't felt any movement at all, so we headed into labor and delivery to be hooked up to the monitor for fetal heart tones. The nurse assisting --> keep reading

2014: The Year That Changed My Life Forever

June 9,2014 at 9:30 p.m. and June 10,2014 at 10:34 p.m.: Those two days I will never forget. I have been told my son would come early, and I've had dreams about him coming early and I told my OBGYN office that is high risk group, that  I felt like my son was going to be early, I just didn't know --> keep reading

This Little Girl Taught Us So Much in Her Lifetime

Thanksgiving week 2014 we welcomed Emilia Louise, 20 weeks too early.  Here is our story.  It is VERY long.  There are many details that I simply couldn't leave out and had to rewind a bit in time to tell the whole story.Not everyone knows, but over the years I have struggled with fertility -- unfortunately, the --> keep reading