Our Mission:


to build and support a community of individuals and families who have been touched directly or indirectly by miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal loss.


Share Your Story


This site is for anyone touched by perinatal grief — we want you to raise your voice.


Break Your Silence


Offering you a place to share your feelings about perinatal grief -- to break the silence and write what ever is on your mind.


Community Advice


Do you need answers on what to expect or about how to handle a situation as you grief? Ask those who really know what it's like.

Grieving Without Religion

When I accepted this prompt, I didn't expect my father in law to pass away a few days later. My husband had been out to visit him briefly over the weekend. He came home Sunday, I accepted the post Monday and my father in law passed away on the Tuesday evening. Grief has been raw --> keep reading

Saying Hello, Then Saying Goodbye

A pregnant mother, never imagines that maybe, just maybe, shortly after saying hello to their precious baby, they will also have to face saying goodbye. Sometimes this is sudden and unexpected, and sometimes this is determined early on in the pregnancy through testing and ultrasounds. Regardless of how and when it happens, having to meet --> keep reading

How My Partner’s Grief Differed From Mine

The first thing he did following the news was draw closer and grab my hand. He squeezed me so tight the shock of our son's death vibrated between us. We were like magnets clinging together by a sheer force of nature. I screamed out proclamations of self-blame- he quieted me with reassurance that, although we --> keep reading

How Can a Happy Day Be So Sad?

I am sitting here on a beautiful spring night, thinking one year ago our lives changed. After two years of trying to get pregnant and two rounds of IUI, last June I was exhausted and I was sure I wasn't pregnant -- I was! We were over the moon! My pregnancy was amazing, but very quickly I --> keep reading